CONTENTS

Part 1 

“Knowing What You Want”

This is the part of my life that I have been dreaming of, for as long as I can remember. It’s not only just the chance to meet the loves of my life, which are my dreams, but it’s an opportunity to experience them.  Please allow me to inform you of the walk I had to walk first, to make this possible. This walk that I have been walking has been a kind of scary walk, because I had to put myself out there to really see what I am made of and to know what I really want. It’s really important to know what you really want, right? You would hate to buy something from the store many miles away, and then find out that you purchased something that you did not really want. Now you have to travel all those miles to return what you did not want and hope that they still have what you really wanted. Well, that is kind of what it’s like when you connect with someone you really do not want to be with. 

Have you ever taken the time to make a list of things that you wanted out of the following: 

• Life,

• A career,

• Friends, 

• Family,

• Relationships,

• A vacation,

• Sleeping,

• A shoe,

• Education, and

• Etc…

Get the picture, have you ever evaluated what you wanted out of the things that you have connected with? Imagine if you were a grape and you no longer had the ability to reproduce after your own kind, “which would make you feel some type of way right?” On top of that, being aware that you will be the last grape to present the flavor and nourishment in only a way that you, through generations, have been groomed over hundreds of years to produce. When you realize that all your dreams and ideas will end in that moment, in that moment you find yourself consumed. Yes, knowing that it all ends with you, because you are a seedless grape. 

Wow, that would be messed up right? Realizing not knowing what you want, just makes it all end with you. Understand this: knowing what you want creates expectations, which acts like seeds which in turn create and/or grow into jobs and businesses. Someone has to be open to release what is needed to manifest the desires of their communities. We cannot be sure who will create or produce it, but we can be sure that someone will, because someone has before.  So, I would like you to take some time to evaluate what you want out of things that you allow yourself to connect to.

Now, to bring this process of expecting something by knowing what you want helps or assists you in finding the kind of person that you want to spend the rest of your life with. So, what do you want? Make a list. Do you want someone who listens a lot; because you know that you like to do a lot of talking. Well, then it will make a lot of sense to find someone who listens. Get the picture, evaluate yourself and see what you enjoy and then identify what compliments what you enjoy. 

Now, if you do not know what you enjoy well, some would say that this is a problem. Being me I would say this is a situation that can become an opportunity to have adventures  in order to discover what you like, and do not like. Translation is to discover what you want and do not want.  The question is, are you courageous enough to “discover you?”

Most people have read amazing stories about great men and women discovering great things like:

• Unbelievable treasures

• Secrets about the Pyramids

• World Changing Cures to Diseases 

• New Life Altering Technological Discoveries   

• ETC…

We have all heard of things like that, but when was the last time that you discovered something amazing about you? Remember what excellence feels like, and what it looks like to operate in that level of excellence when it comes to your dreams.

You are more valuable to yourself than you have probably imagined, so have you considered how valuable you are to you lately? When was the last time you made a list of things about yourself that encouraged you because you saw it as valuable? Well, that’s what we are about to do now. 

Identify one thing that you have done in your life that you believe is or was amazing where you moved in excellence and write it down. Put it some where where you can see it every day. In a place like the restroom, or on a refrigerator? 

Now let’s dream big, what’s one thing that you would like to do in excellence with yourself that would make you feel amazing? It does not matter how big or small the idea is just as long as you have an idea, and yes you must write it down and just like the other one, place it somewhere you can see regularly.

 I know you’re probably like what am I making all these lists for, well just like a grocery list eventually you have to manifest what’s on the list. I know, where do I start? Well, you have identified a great question, so first let’s find out what is required to arrive at that idea? Here are some starter questions to ask about it:

• Who’s doing what I would like to do consistently in excellence,

• Where can I get more information on this topic,

• What does it cost to manifest this idea,

• ETC…

Because we all know that discovering a person that has been successful at what we would like to do, can create a great wealth of successful knowledge that we can develop in. 

I know you’re probably like what does this have to do with discovering me? Well for one thing, this will allow you to see how much you are willing to invest when it comes to supporting your dreams, because you already know what you will do for others.

In the past we have invested: time, money, sweat, friends, connections, and whatever it took to help someone that we loved manifest their dream, but when was the last time we took time to do it for ourselves? If we have, then when was the last time we took the time to do it, to manifest one of our own dreams? I know when emergencies arise we do it, but when was the last time we treated one of our dreams as if it were an emergency? If we do not, who will? So on today’s day, one of the dreams you put up in your restroom or on your refrigerator is now an emergency to manifest. The question is, will you treat it as such? Here in this chapter we focused on identifying what you want, because if you do not know what it is when you see it then you cannot have what you want. So hopefully the things that you have been exposed to in this chapter will assist you in identifying what you want in a moment or a situation. Because I would hate to see your moments end up like that seedless grape. So, be encouraged to think thoughts that agree with your desires of excellence. Take the time to see who’s choosing to agree and support your dreams and who’s not supporting them so that you can know who you can continue to communicate with, yes, the right people.  Because people's words are like energy, they can give energy to you if they are positive, or if they’re negative they can take energy away from you. Remember you need energy to finish this race to discover you, so move mindfully. Also remember that you have already done something amazing once and if you did it once you can do it again. You just have to believe it and find out what it takes to do it again, so that you can manifest it again. 

Let’s review what we have learned here in Part 1:

• To evaluate what we expect out of things that we connect to,

• To remind ourselves of the things that we have done that’s amazing and valuable,

• To remind ourselves of things that we have done to assist others in their dreams,

• To seek out excellence in the area of our dreams and to study it,

• To treat our dreams as if they are emergencies,

• To not be a seedless grape,

Part 2 will expose you to trade techniques to evaluate your efforts. So get ready, or shall I say lets evaluate the movement in a way which will take you beyond the moment.

Part 2

“Connecting To What You Want”

Here in Part 2 we will share with you things to become aware of, and to evaluate how things and people can affect your desire to walk in excellence in the area of manifesting your dreams. Recently within the last few years I have become aware of where I place things that I desire greatly, and that location is in my heart. Now whether I choose to do something about the things in my heart is all depending upon the courage I possess in

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